Life is too simple but we always tend to make it complicated. 1 broken heart. 1 bad incident. And we remain scarred for years. Aloof from others. With others but still without them. Social but anti-social.
Creating a wall so that no one enters it again. So that you don't get hurt again. Showing everyone that you don't care. Nothing hurts you cause you don't feel anything. Sentences that are repeated to yourself so you start believing in them while you are still hurting inside.
Makes me wonder, Why do people find comfort in sadness, unhappiness? After a period why do people start enjoying being that way?
We all have gone through this. Loved. Lost. Hoped. Cried. Are we hurt? Yes. Is there too much hatred? Yes. Nights of blaming yourself. Blaming the decisions we made. Regretting them. And not to forget sleeping off with tears rolling down your eyes. May be we find comfort in that. But is this the right thing to do? Does this help the pain go away or do you give it more strength to grow.
Moving on and letting go of things are easier said than done. But Nothing is Impossible. They say time heals all the pain, but it is not the time, it is our effort of releasing ourself from the pain.
It is rightly said 'If you can't laugh at the same joke again and again, then why do you keep crying over the same thing over and over again?'
